We have been asked to give our perspective on the topic of suicide. There is much negativity that surrounds the topic of suicide. There are also many ingrained beliefs associated with committing suicide. Many on your world believe that those who commit suicide will not be allowed to “enter the gates of Heaven”. This belief of course leaves friends and family members with a tremendous amount of grief from the perceived unexpected loss as well as the agony of their loved one being “condemned to an eternity in hell for their sin”. We do not view suicide in the same light, and this is what we would like to share in this message.
Using the human definition; suicide is the act which a person takes to end ones physical life upon the earth plane. This is most regularly associated with the conscious decision to end one’s life; however there are also suicides which the person has indeed ended their physical life; however it was not by a conscious decision. Examples of this are an overdose of medication or other harmful substances. We wish to shed some light upon this topic at hand in hopes that it reaches those who are in need of these words the most.
From our perspective, all deaths are a form of suicide. Some may find this to be shocking but let us explain our selves. From our perspective no one is ever able to take another person’s life. There are certainly scenarios which exist on your world which one could view as murders, accidents, and the taking of another’s life, however no one has the power to take another’s life without the permission of the other soul. This of course is almost always on a soul level. All souls choose to map out their lives before they incarnate on Earth. We spoke about this topic in more detail in our message about reincarnation. When soul’s choose the life they would like to incarnate into they also choose how they will exit the Earth plane. Much thought is put into how a soul will exit, because it is used to help those who are “left behind”. Those who still remain in the physical have also agreed to the experience and wanted to gain valuable lessons from the passing of their friend or family member. You may wonder why some would choose such traumatic ways to exit, however it was used to benefit all who were involved. Everything is used as a learning lesson. Now we will say that although you do choose how you would like to exit your physical incarnation, there still is a large amount of flexibility, in not only the time when you exit but also in how you exit. You always have free will, and you are free to amend your wishes at any time.
Now we will say that suicide is never the intention of a soul who incarnates in the physical world. Each incarnation is highly regarded for the tremendous life lessons that will be gained. However you always have free will and you are therefore free to exit this world anytime you choose. From our perspective a suicide is simply the soul utilizing its own free will, we would not say that it is a mistake. It simply allows the soul to gain another perspective and learn lessons which they may not have initially intended when they first incarnated. Regardless of a soul’s choices, there will always be lessons to be learned and experiences to be gained. From our perspective you cannot make a mistake, you simply are choosing one experience over another. From the human perspective, you may not like the consequences of your actions and therefore regret the decision which has been made, yet we do not see the expression of free will to ever result in mistakes.
When a soul choses to end their life prematurely they often times are not aware that they are deceased. It takes a little time for them to re-acclimate to the non-physical world. Many guides are there to escort them as they are usually still immersed in the “emotional pain” they felt in the physical world which caused them to end their incarnation. Much attention and care is given to ensure that they are able to heal, and eventually review their lives to learn as much as they can from their past experience.
Remember, Heaven is simply a state of mind. Therefore no one can ever be excluded or banned from Heaven. Those who commit suicide certainly experience a form of “hell” but not because of the actions they took to end their own life, but rather because of the thoughts that held them captive while they were in the physical. You see, “Hell” is no more of a place than Heaven is. Both can only be entered through your state of mind; and only you can prevent your entrance to either one.
Many who end their lives through suicide have allowed such negative beliefs to saturate their being that when they pass over, the pain does not automatically end just because they are no longer in their physical body. Just as it is in your world, we too create our reality with our thoughts. This is why so many guides and angels are awaiting those who have committed suicide; in order to help them to regain a sense of peace; to help them to release themselves from their own manmade prison.
Those who have “committed suicide” do have several options once they have regained their composure and peace has been restored. A soul can choose to reincarnate back into another parallel reality in which they did not choose to take their own life; the memory of the suicide will be completely removed and the soul with have a “second chance” to make a different decision. Another option is to simply choose to reincarnate into another life with similar circumstances which will evoke the same reactions from the soul, and they are then able to learn from their past experience which will be held in their subconscious memory. And thirdly the other option is to simply not reincarnate on earth again. All three options will allow the soul to gain valuable lessons.
We do not perceive death in the same way that humans do. For humans, the pain of losing a loved one can be unbearable. The perceived loss of another is agonizingly painful; however from our perspective death is simply a transition from one state to another. No one can be disconnected by “death”, not even if they wanted to. Everyone is connected, we are all one. You have the ability to reach out to your loved ones at any time; however it is the belief that a soul must be physical in order to “be here” in order to exist. This belief allows for a very limited perspective of what existence can be. You cannot see the air that you breathe and yet your belief in existence is unwavering. To this we smile because it is only the mind which says something is real or not real. Know that those who have transitioned from the physical to the non-physical are just as real, and are available for you to connect with anytime you wish.
We wish to express to those who are concerned about their loved ones, that there is no “punishment” for committing suicide. However those soul’s who have had time to regain peace and see their actions from a higher perspective, often would like to have a “second chance” to try it again. Although it may not always feel like it, a physical incarnation at this time upon your world is considered a great privilege. Know that there were many more souls who wanted to be here at this great time of change yet were denied this great honor. There are a limited amount of physical vessels available for souls to incarnate into. This is one of the reasons why there are billions of souls upon your world at this time. Every “spot” is filled. We do want to convey to you just how coveted your time here on Earth is. You were chosen to incarnate here because you were seen as the most capable of assisting Earth at this great time of transition. So you see, although there is no punishment for the act of suicide, it is often a choice that souls regret making once they regain their higher perspective. Although you knew how difficult this life would be, you desired so very much to have this chance to make a difference. So with that being said, we ask that you continue to shine your light as brightly as you can because your light just may be the reason why someone choses to stay.
We hope that this message has in some way brought those who needed to hear it peace and that it has in some way served you.
In love and light, we are your Angelic Guides.