Have you asked the Universe for something but it hasn’t come? You’re not alone. There are a lot of misconceptions when it comes to the law of attraction. The truth it is, it’s not a wishing well. It’s not a matter of how deserving you are, or how hard you have worked for it, or how many positive affirmations you’ve shouted at the Universe.
It all comes down to just one thing…..your vibration.
We have to become a match to our desire. Everything is made up of energy. We are constantly emitting a vibrational signal whether we mean to or not. The rate at which that frequency vibrates determines what we attract into our physical experience.
Most of us are pretty good at coming up with opinions about what we like and what we don’t like. We are in duality so we have a lot to choose from, but just because we want something doesn’t mean the Universe will deliver our desire to us.
It’s not a matter of who is most deserving, or who works the hardest, or if you really really need it….the universe is simply a mirror. A mirror doesn’t show you what you want to look like, or what you deserve to look like or what you will look like. It shows you what you are right now.
The Universe works exactly the same way…it can only bring to you what you are a match to.
You could think of a television or a radio. There are thousands of channels broadcasting at any given time, but we are only able to perceive the one we are tuned to.
We have come to rely on our 5 physical senses to perceive what is “real” but really our 5 senses only have access to what we are a match to. So all of the thoughts you have, the dreams you hold, and the things you imagine are all created instantaneously. So where are they? They are all right here, there is no where else for them to be. But they are vibrating at a different speed so your physical senses can’t perceive them….yet. But your mind can!
So as you look around your reality, you can see all that you have found a way to match the speed of. The home you live in, the experiences that you are aware of right now, the people and relationships in your life, the floor that you walk on. It’s all made of energy which is vibrating constantly. Which is why you can only experience what you resonate with.
Many make the mistake of becoming very aware of what they don’t want, and then stay glued to that “channel” because it’s the one they happen to be watching. Which leaves them feeling stuck and out of control.
Remember, we can’t be a match to having something and not having it at the same time. In other words, we can’t be a match to financial abundance and feel a great sense of lack at the same time. So which one wins out? The strongest and most dominate vibration…..every single time.
The key is becoming deliberate about what you allow your mind to focus upon. It doesn’t matter why you feel good, all that matters is that you do. By focusing on something that satisfies you or makes you happy you begin to tune to the frequency of joy and as a result you attract more experiences that bring you joy.
Dr. Taryn Crimi